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gifts for grads…

It's that time of year!

It’s graduation time and I don’t care who you are, you know someone who is graduating from high school, college, kindergarten, or middle school. I’m lucky enough to have a kid graduating from high school on the very same day that I have another kid graduating from middle school. Just kill me.

Needless to say, there will be lots of celebration and fanfare. Here are some ideas for grad gifts:

• Cash is always good for older kids, but a check tucked into a sweatshirt from their new college is even better. Kids love to wear their emblems.

• A gas card is a nice alternative to cash for high school grads, keeps them from spending all their college money on Natty Light and Red Solo Cups.

• Personalized stuff: a phone cover with a photo of the kid with BFFs from Zazzle, personalized school supplies (for the younger set) from Frecklebox.com, monogrammed fleece or towels.

• Emergency kit: sewing stuff, basic tools, first aid supplies and candy.

• A gift card from their college bookstore.

Stay tuned for grad party planning…

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got graduation?

Graduation is just around the corner and now is the time to plan your grads announcements and party invitations. Whether your son or daughter is graduating from elementary school, middle school or high school, an announcement is the perfect way to spread the happy news. There are so many choices in cards these days. I love adding photos and if you pick a card with multiple photos you can do a current photo with a baby photo, cute idea! You can also find cards that match your school colors or even your party decor.

This Hawaiian themed invitation from SimplytoImpress.com comes both with and without photo options (also in boy/girl versions). The Luau is always a popular party theme. And every party store carries plenty of luau party supplies year round. I love the classic black and white look and the invitation below, found here, is perfect for a more formal look. Add your son or daughters baby picture or even a sports picture, to jazz it up.

School colors are always a great option. Blue and gold are very popular. The invitation below from Invitationbox.com comes in a variety of colors.

Finding the card is pretty easy just make sure to do it in enough time so you are not rushing around the week before. Start ordering now and enjoy a stress free and exciting day with your graduate. Here are some previous post we did on the subject that you might find useful, Photo Books and Extended Senior Photos.

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milfy monday: bonding at the tattoo shop

Gearing up to get Inked

So if you told me twenty years ago that I’d be getting a matching tattoo with my daughter someday, I’d have thought you were a Crackhead (or whatever we called people back then). If you had told me this five years ago when she was 14 and already planning her first tattoo, I would have said, “maybe if I’m desperate to keep her from doing something more obnoxious.” Right after she turned 18 she “surprised” us (i.e., didn’t tell us) and got the tattoo she’d been wanting for so long. I wasn’t really surprised but a smaller, more obscure design would have been nice. Last year, on Feb. 6, 2010 to be precise, she started planning the next design and I (stupidly) said if she waited a year, I would go with her and we could get one together. Sometimes my parenting decisions are so colossally idiotic that I think my children would be better off if they were raised by wolves. Or the guys from Role Models. I have known my daughter for a long time, I should know that she is the most persistent person I’ve ever met and she only forgets about things like cleaning her shithole room.

On Feb. 6, 2011 I got the phone call from college, happily reminding me that it’s been exactly a year and if she came home for the weekend could we go get our tattoos? I’m not anti-tattoo, this is not my first and I was actually kind of excited about the idea. Except for the pain. It’s right up there with childbirth only there’s no cute baby that will grow up and change my diapers when I’m old.

My Effing Sunshine, Part One

We went to Humble Beginnings Tattoo after reading about a million reviews and asking friends where NOT to go. Tattoo shops are not as seedy as you might think, but they are full of people who look like convicts even though some of them probably started a software company at 22 and are already billionaires. I tried to blend in, but it wasn’t until the excruciating pain began and I found countless new and exciting ways to string cusswords together that I felt like one of the gang. Even my heavily tattooed artist, Chris, said his ears hurt from my swearing. Who knew that “Fuckity” was an adjective?

As a designer and mom, I was very particular about my tattoo design. It had to be on my foot, cuz I figured gravity wouldn’t jack up my feet the way it’s jacking up the rest of my body. And it had to be something my daughter and I both loved. We picked a sunshine since we are California natives and we live to be outside. Another Big Scary Tattoo Guy asked me “Why a Sunshine?” while Chris was stabbing me with a thousand needles and I grimaced through the pain and told him that it’s because I’m a Fucking Ray of Sunshine and I Sprinkle Happiness Wherever I Go. I can’t believe he had to ask.

So I’m either the World’s Suckiest Mom, because I said the Eff Word in front of my daughter and got a tattoo with her, or I’m lucky that we love each other a ton and enjoy experiences together. I guess I’ll put this on the (long) list of Parenting Decisions That I Hope Don’t Screw Up My Kids Someday. And maybe I’ll see if my mom wants to go with me next time.

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if it kind of sucks, paint It

So I was in one of my tasmanian devil style housecleaning frenzies, the kind where I just want to throw out anything that has not been useful to me in the last week. While frantically forming “crap piles,” i.e., crap to toss, crap to take to Goodwill and crap to find a place for, I came across a standing jewelry case in my daughter’s room that we’ve had around since whitewashed oak was in fashion.

before

I was deciding which pile to put it in when my daughter said that she needed a place to put her jewelry. Duh.

sassy and fab jewelry case after

A couple hours and about $5 worth of paint later, we had a seriously sassy focal point for her room and it’s finally full of jewelry. You almost can’t go wrong painting something black with white trim, but it would have been equally fantastic if we had mixed fun colors.

Not everything that sucks can be cured with a paint brush, but it’s worth a try.

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temporary home with permanent style

Remember your very first apartment? It was the place you could call your own and enjoy your independence (which is just another way of saying that you could fill your fridge with beer and your parents wouldn’t know about it). Decorating an apartment is easier than ever with finds from Ikea and Target.

Mixing old with new for a designer living room

We moved our daughter into her first place (yes, there is already beer and a bag, yes a bag of wine in the fridge), she inherited the obsessive designer gene and her roommate’s mom works at Pottery Barn so naturally there was a 48 hour decorating frenzy.

The girls already had hand me down couches, black tables and red accents. We found the bold lampshades at TJ Max on clearance, got some throw pillows and the zebra print from ikea and voila, the room came together. Small accents like a runner on the coffee table, the tray with clearance sale vases and a large plant transformed the space from an average apartment (with walls the color of baby shit, seriously) into a very cool place to hang out.

Branches and leaves come in pieces so you design your tree to fit your space.

My new favorite decorating tool is wall vinyl. You can find it at Target and Orchard Supply. It is inexpensive and removable so at the end of the lease you can take it down and get your full deposit back. It comes in tons of colors and patterns, we stuck with black to continue the color scheme. We used it in the dining area, the hallway and the bedroom.

Fab wall designed by the "K"s

Starting with a color scheme is the easiest way to get a decorator look without a big budget or interior designer at your disposal. Black and white with a shot of a bold color is almost guaranteed to look hot. And it’s easy to find bold color accessories, just think out of the box or grab a can of paint in your favorite color and go nuts.

My daughter’s room was designed around the team colors of the San Jose Sharks. Doesn’t sound very girly, but it works.

Who knew that a Shark's jersey and a chandelier decal could hang in the same room?

Easy to apply butterflies mixed with vinyl wall art.

Another amazing new designer accent is the 3d wall art by Umbra. These butterflies are made of light weight plastic and attach to the wall with a thumb tack. So simple and so genius at the same time, wish I had invented them.

When friends came to visit and drink wine out of a bag, their first response was “this does not look like a college apartment.” Anyone can make a house feel like home, just turn on some good music, gather up your friends and get creative.

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it’s all about the presentation

Katie and Kaitlyn hard at work

We should probably hire them to do this in all of the stores...

I went to an Office Max store in LA this week to visit our back to school supplies because I just can’t get over how exciting it is to see our products on a shelf. I brought my daughter and her friends cuz they are also easily excited….

Turns out our designs aren’t just for tweens, the college girls loved them too. Kylie, Katie and Kaitlyn thought since Simon+Kabuki had the cutest designs, the display should really be dedicated solely to our Wild Child line.

Wild Child school supplies at Office Max

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